Children Behaviour/Angry/Aqua Child

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Posted by admin | Posted in CHILDREN & PARENTING | Posted on 29-05-2009

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“My child yells at me. When Katie doesn’t get what she wants, she hits and kicks. She can be so angry and explode like a volcano at any moment. Active the whole time, she never sits still. As a baby she had reflux and was not a good sleeper. She is intolerant so many foods.“

“My son does not do very well at school. He does like school work and does not like to read. In actual fact he is far behind academically. Trying to get Jacob to do homework is a nightmare and usually ends up in a screaming match.”

“I have a 11 year old son who is very gifted in singing and guitar. He is very creative and does well when he puts the effort in. A month before his 11th birthday I noticed the moods swings coming in. I have put this down to hormones. He is angry and has power struggles with everyone in the family. He manipulates to get out things by having TEMPER TANTRUMS. Is this hormones?”

“How on earth do I get my five year old Stacey to do anything? I am exhausted with repeating myself, yelling, smacking and then eventually I give in to her manipulation. There has to be an easier way. Everything feels like a battle with my child.”

Repetitively, I hear these comments. Many of the phone calls, sessions and Courses in regards to Parenting are people feeling like failures. School Teachers have also questioned their own ability especially when faced with these alive beings. Teachers after 20 years worth of experience are going home in tears every night as they are convinced that they are NOT reaching the children.

Children and behaviour problems … are the children behaving badly? Are the children naughty? Is it the children’s behaviour that is naughty? Why do children have behaviour problems? What is a behaviour problem? What is actually happening for children when the behaviour is bad? Let us start by defining the word behaviour.

Human behavior is the collection of behaviors exhibited by human beings and influenced by culture, attitudes, emotions, values, ethics, authority, rapport, hypnosis, persuasion, coercion and/or genetics. The behavior of people (and other organisms or even mechanisms) falls within a range with some behavior being common, some unusual, some acceptable, and some outside acceptable limits. In sociology, behavior is considered as having no meaning, being not directed at other people and thus is the most basic human action. The acceptability of behavior is evaluated relative to social norms and regulated by various means of social control. The behavior of people is studied by the academic disciplines of psychology, sociology, economics, and anthropology. Human behavior is an important factor in human society. According to Humanism, each human have a different behavior. In summary HUMAN BEHAVIOUR means:

Performance
Action
Activity
Manners
Conduct

SO when we look at ‘bad behavior’ or ‘naughty behavior’, we are referring to the way a child performs, acts, conducts themselves. Depending on belief systems, cultures and customs, certain actions will appear inappropriate and unacceptable. This is then described as ‘bad’, ‘naughty’ and then even sometimes as conditions such ADD, Aspergus. Behavioral problems can simply be seen as the child not conducting themselves according to specific rules, beliefs and actions. Why would this happen?

Article kindly writen by

Jean Sheehan
www.absoluteempowerment.com/Psychic_Children.php

See part 2 for more answers

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BOOSTING NATURAL IMMUNITY

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Posted by admin | Posted in BEAUTY FROM THE INSIDE OUT, CHILDREN & PARENTING, EXERCISE & BODY, FLOWER ESSENCES, NATURAL MEDICINE, NUTRITION & FOOD | Posted on 28-05-2009

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Editors notes: I personally use Linn’s herbs and advice, she knows what she is talking about. This is especially good for all those in fear of the dreaded swine flu. Prevention is the best cure and if your immunity is high you are less suseptable to these kind of outbreaks.

There are many diseases for which no vaccination is available. Against these we are left with only one defence – our own natural immunity. Now more than ever, with new diseases emerging and antibiotic resistance at an all time high, it is important for you to know how to support your body’s inbuilt immune system. Here are some simple natural steps you can take. 

CLEAN LYMPHATICS
Your lymphatic system picks up metabolic wastes and environmental toxins from throughout your body and excretes them through your skin or bowel. When your “glands are up” (your lymph nodes are swollen) this is a sign they have gathered an amount of toxic waste (i.e. they are doing their job). When you get sick your lymph nodes help isolate the infection. As the infection passes they should slowly and safely excrete their wastes. Unfortunately, in modern times we have many toxins in our body that it was never designed to deal with, so the lymphatic system is often permanently congested and sluggish. Exercise helps pump lymph and clean this system through sweating. If you don’t sweat or your sweat smells or you are showing a lymphatic rosary in your iris, your lymphatic system needs cleaning. Specific herbs can achieve this. This detox mix helps cleanse both your lymphatic system and blood:
http://www.medicinalherbsforwomen.com/product/herb09″

The Australian Bush Flower Essence ‘Bush Iris’ can also support the lymphatic system energetically http://www.medicinalherbsforwomen.com/product/ABFE-14

HEALTHY BLOOD

“Dirty blood” is a naturopathic term referring to blood laden with waste products. Iron deficiency can contribute to this. Good iron levels are necessary to oxygenate all the cells in the body and to burn out infection. The long term effects of low iron levels are potentially very serious. Vegetarians, those who don’t eat a lot of red meat, and women who menstruate heavily are most prone. If blood tests show low iron or haemoglobin levels, natural iron supplements are recommended. Synthetic iron tablets often cause constipation and are not as readily absorbable by your body.

TRY HERBAL ANTIBIOTICS
Like any part of the body, the immune system gets stronger the more it is used. “Use it lose it” definitely applies here. Over use of antibiotics can lead to a lazy immune system, antibiotic resistance and / or yeast overgrowth (thrush and candida). Combine this with a weak immune system and the outlook can be grim if a really serious infection occurs. There are many very effective herbal medicines for bacterial, viral and fungal infections. Other herbs can be used to stimulate the immune system when necessary. No resistance seems to develop against herbal remedies and they support the healing process rather than suppress it. Even in medical circles, stress is now known to lower immunity. Your adrenal glands must be healthy for you to mount an effective response against any challenge – including disease. Stress, worry and anxiety all deplete your adrenal glands. There are many herbs and flower essences which act as adrenal tonics and assist during times of stress. Flower essences include Black-Eyed Susan www.medicinalherbsforwomen.com/product/ABFE-07 and also Macrocarpa www.medicinalherbsforwomen.com/product/ABFE-36
Remember to take time out to relax with family, friends and hobbies. Live and work somewhere you like, with people whose company you enjoy. Live joyfully.

…. as much as you can afford to buy and have time to grow. The much higher life force from plants and animals being nurtured on good quality soil, using traditional farming practises, is well worth the extra expense. Mass produced food is grown in tired soil, stimulated with chemical fertilisers to grow fast, and sprayed with toxic chemicals to control pests. Some is also genetically modified to look good, travel well and last a long time on the supermarket shelf. The end result has dramatically lowered nutritional value. The cost of organic food is the true cost of (nutritious) food. The true cost of non organic food is chronic sub health and the recent alarming rise in serious diseases in western society. Every step of processing food lessens its nutritional value. So use as much whole, organic food as time and budget permit and cook it yourself. It’s the only way to really know what you are eating.

LIMIT ENVIRONMENTAL TOXINS
They increase the work your liver, kidneys, skin, lungs and lymphatics have to do. Take a serious look at every cleaning product and personal care item in your house. If you can’t eat it, don’t breathe it or let it touch your skin. Many natural products do just as good a job as their chemical equivalents and using them does you, your children, your grandchildren and the environment a huge favour. Copyright Linn Wiggins. Wholistic Herbalist. http://www.medicinalherbsforwomen.com

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How to get Hulla Hoop

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Posted by admin | Posted in BEAUTY FROM THE INSIDE OUT, EXERCISE & BODY | Posted on 28-05-2009

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I have had such a good response with the Hulla Hoop videos that I have added more detailed ones.
I am even going to start to do this today!

I figure I might as well enjoy lossing wieght and getting fit. Bring on the Funky music!!!

 

 

 

Starting out

What direction do you feel most comfortable hooping?

 

How to Hulla Hoop


Keeping the hoop up

How to prepare & wind down

Get better

Hand movements

Stalling the Hoop

 

I’ll put more up next week but for now I think mastering these shall be a challange and fun.

Come on girls lets do this together. Let me know how you go.

I am starting at 79kgs on the 28/5/09 , I will see how much I shape up over the next weeks and let you know.
I am already laughing at myself just imagening me doing this!

Make sure you check out this video to get some inspirationand some lovely music…

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What Is Feng Shui?

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Posted by admin | Posted in HOME & GARDEN, MONEY & WORK | Posted on 23-05-2009

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Feng Shui (pronounced fung shway) is an ancient Chinese practice that involves art and science.

It has been around for thousands of years. The practice relies on the laws of heaven and earth to

help people balance their energies within a space. This is to help them receive fortune and

health.

The word “feng” means wind and “shui” means water. Therefore Feng Shui means “wind

water”. The local Chinese people place wind that is gentle and water that is clear in one setting.

It is to represent good health and harvest.

Feng Shui prides itself on thinking that the land includes Chi. The work Chi has to do with

energy. Back in ancient times, the local Chinese people claimed that the energy of the land

would be good or bad for others.

Feng Shui comes from the Taoist ideals in order to deal with nature. Taoism deals with religious

and philosophical beliefs. Taoism has a strong influence in Asia.

Taoism is also responsible for birthing yin and yang concepts. Yin and yang deal with opposite

aspects of a phenomenon or comparing two phenomena. They represent quality in regard to

correspondence which is found in most areas of Chinese science and philosophy. An example of

this would be ancient Chinese medicine.

In addition to that, the main five Feng Shui elements are also derived from Feng Shui. When

doing a Feng Shui analysis, the Compass and the Ba-Gua are used. The Ba-Gua is a grid that is

created in the shape of an octagon.

This grid has symbols of the I Ching. In fact, Feng Shui is based on this premise. In order for

you to connect the areas of your home with Feng Shui, you need to understand the concept of

Ba-Gua.

The compass is also known as “lo-pan”, works to gain additional information about a facility.

The magnetic needle is surrounded by concentric rings that are strategically placed. The word

“lo” means everything and “pan” means bowl. Lo-pan is used to open the mysteries of the

universe.

When learning Feng Shui, you have to start off at the basic level in order for you to understand

the entire process. After you had a good understanding Feng Shui on the basic level, you will get

phenomenal results. The results will affect how you perceive Feng Shui. You will want to use it

on a regular basis in your home and your business.

When engaged with Feng Shui, you will need cures in order to have a better life. There are

different things that can be used to achieve this. Here are five of them:

 

  • Aquariums
  • Fountains
  • Crystals
  • Colors
  • Clocks

Interesting and powerful, to find out more about how Feng Shui can transform you life have a look at the table of contents below and if you like what you see join our members area and get it for free. Have your first months membership as a gift from us, simply join our newsletter and you will be gifted with your free 1 months membership.

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Banks and brokers ????

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Posted by admin | Posted in MONEY & WORK | Posted on 23-05-2009

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Brokers are common place in today’s society for a variety of different things ….. one of the major area’s is finance.

Why would you use a broker … well why not ???  Brokers are normally accredited with all the major banks as well as many other institutions that are just as reputable if not better but you may not know all about them. The job of a broker is to find you the best loan., and who pays for this you ask … the banks !! yes that’s right you have access to professional advice from people who live and breathe mortgages and finance and you don’t pay for the service .. the bank does !!!! Wonderful hey …..

Just as it all sounds too good to be true, please buyer beware …. You MUST ensure you have a broker who is registered with the MFAA of FBAA.  You should be sure they have the experience and the knowledge of the lending industry and preferably a Cert IV in finance broking.  This is not compulsory  in QLD meaning that perhaps not all brokers are experienced enough to be looking after your financial affairs.  Please also be mindful that the various institutions do pay brokers different amounts so don’t be swayed to a certain bank just because they want you to go there … it must be that they have your best interests at heart. Your broker should be able to explain to you why they are obtaining your loan where they do and ensure the loans features and benefits suit YOU and your family.

There is a mountain of information out there on the various loans and institutions that provide finance … there are numerous different loans and packages and brokers must keep their knowledge of what is on offer constantly up to date.  All the products and packages offered through banks can be applied to your loan if you apply through a broker and you will be become a customer and receive all the benefits of that organisation just as if you had walked in there yourself.

A good broker knows where you are most likely to be approved for your loan.  Everyone has different circumstances and not all of us fit a generic box that meet general lending criteria…There are always reasons as to why we don’t and it doesn’t always make us a bad risk for a loan, everyone has a story and we need to explore that to ensure you get the right deal. Brokers have access to all the lenders policies and will know where to get your loan approved.  After all who has time to sit at appointments at over 30 different lending institutions and find out who will approve them and give them the best deal …… Explaining your personal circumstances and going over your very sensitive personal information can be daunting and being declined for finance is never a nice feeling .. this can be alleviated by visiting a broker you trust and let them do the hard work for you. 

Please feel free to email or call me with any questions I am always more than happy to give you advice obligation free and to help you plan the things you want to achieve whether it is in the short term or the longer term …. Let’s make a plan whether it is to buy your first home or your fourth, your life insurance or investment advise you deserve the extra attention and care it is a big decision … 
By Rebecca Jeal

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